November is Prematurity Awareness Month

Did you know approximately 1 in 10 babies is born too early (before 37 weeks)- just in the US?!

Did you know that being born too soon puts the child at risk for more health conditions than you can possibly count – from heart and lung issues to mental and learning disabilities to issues with learning how to walk or eat and everything in between?

Did you know there are babies who are born weighing less than two pounds?

Did you also know that if you’ve met my son, you’ve met one of these babies?

My son the day he was born. Yes he’s wrapped in Saran Wrap – it helps maintain his heat. And his eyes are covered to protect them from the light.

That’s right. My wee man was born weighing a whopping 940 grams at 26 weeks and 5 days. I learned pretty much everything I now know about preterm labor and NICUs and preemies while I was going through it. I was told I was at risk for preterm labor but no one really ever explained what this really meant.

This is an XXS Preemie diaper – it’s smaller than an expo marker but was still too big for my son.

And sure enough my wee man came early- but not for any of the reasons I was at risk. In other words we still don’t know why and many parents never do.

Depending on their child’s health many parents wait days, weeks, or even months just to hold their child for the first time. I was lucky and only waited 7 days but they were the longest 7 days of my life.

So why talk about this? It’s scary and many never need to know this information.

My son’s first bath. We kept him swaddled so he wouldn’t get cold. He’s still so small he fits in a “puke” bucket.
My son was almost 2 mo this old before he wore his first clothes. Even preemie sized was too big.

That’s exactly why. It’s SCARY AS FUCK and those of us who do need to know wish we did before it was happening.

I wish I knew more before it was happening so I could make better decisions (yea I know I did the best I could). I wish I knew before so I wasn’t trying to have to make these crazy important decisions about my child’s life while I was delirious and drugged and in pain. Or over the phone when I got a call from the NICU and wasn’t there to be with my baby. Or while I found myself in the OR at a different hospital than my baby.

Once he could regulate his temperature enough to not need to stay enclosed he got to see a mobile. He was very fascinated.

I wish I knew before I was handed a breast pump before meeting my child. Or before I basically made the decision to live in the hospital.

Going home! Depending on your baby’s weight you have to get a smaller car seat or even car bed to accommodate their tiny size.
These days he’s a mostly healthy, super active, always exploring 2 year old.

There is nothing easy about having a preemie. And No DEAR – no matter how miserable you feel while pregnant it is NOT worth having your baby early. So I hope some of this can help someone.

Thanks March of Dimes, NICU Helping Hands, Hand to Hold, Grahams Foundation, and all our doctors, nurses, and therapists that have gotten us here today.

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